melissa from tampa, florida writes, "i need some advice on how i can go about approaching a guy that i am interested in getting to know. i currently attend college and there is a guy that is in my class that i noticed seems to stare at me. i must admit that i am flattered because i am very attracted to him. i know this may sound funny that i am explaining this, but i am an incredibly shy person and i do not know how to go about initiating conversation with him. does the fact that he stares at me has anything to do with wanting to get to know me or is this a simple game that guys play when they check out girls? i really need some advice because i have been telling myself that i will go up to him but i am afraid of not only being rejected, but that maybe he is just looking and that is it!"

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